Our scripture this morning is Ephesians 4:29-32.
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
Paul asks us to look at how we speak about one another, reminding us of the example Jesus has given us. Perhaps we don’t use profanity, but words that demean others are never appropriate. He encourages us to say “only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen”.
He reminds us of our obligation as followers of Christ to “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you”. We may be called to help correct improper interactions, but we must be careful not to fall into sin ourselves by using the same methods we intend to prevent. Shaming someone into better behavior is not acceptable or effective.
James 3:9 tells us “With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness.” God gave humans the gift of speech and reason; we must not use them to harm others. All people are God’s beloved children and we are called to love and care for each other, sharing the joy of fellowship and our connection to Him.
Loving Lord, we are sorry for the way we treat each other and ask Your forgiveness. Help us to be strong in faith but gentle in our words and actions. Amen.